CARING FOR MY AGING PARENTS - How do I know if they need help?
Physical Health.
Or other diseases, such as bowel or bladder problems, heart disease, stroke or cancer? No Yes
Do they have vision or hearing problems, excessive weight loss or gain, or difficulty walking? No Yes
Do they use a walker, cane or furniture and walls for stability while walking? No Yes
Does their home have steps on the outside or inside that cause you to worry about their safety? No Yes
Have there been any recent falls or hospitalizations? No Yes
Mental Health.
Have they been diagnosed with any psychiatric disorders such as depression, anxiety or psychosis? No Yes
Have they been diagnosed with Alzheimer's or another form of dementia? No Yes
Are they showing signs of confusion, disorientation or isolation? No Yes
What about mood swings or forgetfulness? No Yes Sadness or loneliness? No Yes
Medication Use.
Do you know what medications they are currently taking? No Yes
How can you be certain they are taking their medication as directed?
Daily Living Skills.
Are they able to dress, bathe, get up from a chair, use a toilet, climb stairs, use the phone? No Yes
If your answer was no, please tell us more.
Do they know how to get help in an emergency? No Yes
Can they shop, prepare meals, do housework and yard work? No Yes
Can they safely drive? No Yes
Support Systems.
Do your parents have frequent visitors or see friends?
Do family members live close by?
Do you know who they will call in an emergency?
Can they maintain their house?
Appearance and Hygiene.
Hair clean? No Yes Teeth Brushed Daily? No Yes Appropriately shaved? No Yes
Do they dress appropriately in clean clothes? No Yes
Who is doing their laundry?
This quiz is designed to help you become more aware of what could be preventing your parents from enjoying an independent lifestyle. Often, we as adult children are so busy we do not realize the changes in our parents that make it difficult for them to lead the life they always have. By submitting this form, I can help you find the peace of mind you've been looking for. Even if it's not from us. We're here to help.
Shari Jo Watkins, Executive Director
A Medicare & Medicaid Provider ~ JCAHO Accredited ~ A United Way Agency